The Chronicles of Nannia

July 23, 2009

… But wait! There’s more!! …

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Thinking a bit more upon my previous blog, I’d like to add a few points that I feel are important.

For those who know me in Jersey, I’m a nanny. That’s not all I am though. Back in Iowa, I lived an entirely different life, with leadership jobs in promotions, sales, and management. Different jobs, different lives, loved all, hated all.

In my first sales job, I worked for a big-box furniture store, specializing in selling sofas, recliners, and the like. The store would warehouse much of their merchandise on-site, and kept prices low by offering merchandise that was made of lesser quality materials. Customers were attracted to this product only because of price and availability. To create more buzz about the store, we used cheap tactics of short-term sales, tents, balloons… anything to draw attention to ourselves.

My second sales job was different. It was in a family-owned furniture shop, that specialized in creating pieces specially suited to the customer’s individual needs. The quality of merchandise was superior, and thusly, more pricey. Each piece of furniture was created, and sometimes specially designed, for each individual customer. There were no sales needed… The furniture was investment material… something that would outlast the lives of the people who purchased it.

Two different furniture stores, two different strategies. In the first store, it was all “lights, cameras, action” and cheap thrills. The second store centered itself about ensuring the customer received the best. It was almost comical, though. The first store saw droves and droves of new customers each weekend (when the sales would start) but had virtually NO repeat customers. The second store had fewer customers, but those who were, were customers for life, that referred friends and family to shop there as well.

As I’ve said before, I’m not formally educated in anything. All of my knowledge of the world comes from a lifetime of different experiences, as well as an intuitiveness that I come upon naturally. But I wonder… does my personal parable have anything to do with today’s churches?

**As an interesting addition, I’d like to share the comments I’ve received regarding this post, from sharing it on my facebook page. I’m rather hoping that certain people take these words to heart. P.S. I love my friends and family!**

Interesting comments...

July 22, 2009

Thinking outside the box

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I know, I know… it’s been a LONG time since my last post. Call it writer’s block. There’s more to it than that, but writer’s block is the simpler way of excusing my blogging absence.

I’ve been thinking a bit over the past few weeks about several areas of my life. I’ll share some of each over the next few days, but today I’m going to focus on a blog that one of the new pastors at the church I’m a member of wrote lately.

In this blog, the age-old question of “what should we give away that will keep the new people coming back to church” was examined. Several different ideas were also mentioned… CDs, chocolate, iTunes gift cards, books… yada-yada, you get the point.

A pastor friend of mine back in Iowa made a point of saying something a few weeks ago that really hit home with me. He said: “New rule for church: if it was clever 10+ years ago, quit doing it.”

Now, I’ve been going to church in one way or another since I was knee-high to a grasshopper (as my grandpa would say), and there has ALWAYS been something given away to first-time guests. The thing is, is that that give-away item has seemingly gotten larger and had more thought put into it with each year. Maybe churches are focusing on the wrong thing here… maybe first-time guests just want to feel like they’re NOT a first-time guest. Maybe they just want to feel like they’ve gotten home… and can relax and worship God with others and not feel like there is special attention and lime-light shown to them for doing what they really want to do. Maybe they want to feel welcomed, but welcomed in the spirit of being an old friend… not someone that needs to be blown away by gifts (with the obligatory “first time guest info card” to be filled out before the service is over) to come back again.

Maybe, maybe not.

I don’t know. I don’t have a degree in this. But I am fairly insightful with people. But maybe I’m wrong.

What do y’all think about this?

April 20, 2009

Run, run as fast as you can…

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So, I’m waiting to hear back from Iowa State University as to whether or not I’m Cyclone material. In the meantime to take my mind off of things, I’ve started running. Yup, right now I look like a whale, waddling my way down the neighborhood streets, but soon that will give way to a muscular and slim runner flying by. I want to run a 5K
by the end of the summer, a half marathon by the end of the year, and a full marathon by this time next year. It’s not so much a weightloss thing, as a dare to myself that I can do it. And I know I have the capability of doing it, as with God, all things are possible. I’m not the first to do this, nor will I be the last. I’m gaining internal strength daily, and physical strength is starting to break through.

April 2, 2009

Ch-ch-ch-changes

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It’s been a minute or two since my last entry, and I think it’s time I slow myself down a little to capture a small portion of the events of the last couple of months leading up to today.

1. I gave up everything having to do with a couple of people who had been prominant in my life up until a couple months ago. Too much stress and drama ensued when they were allowed in my life, and the negative far outweighed the possitive.

2. I gave up my roll in my church’s preschool volunteer program. Yes, I miss the kids, but I began to realize that I was using that weekly obligation as a crutch, in a way, from keeping me from doing what it is I need to do during this time in my life.

3. Audioned for Season 8 of The Biggest Loser. Even if I make it to call-backs (which is safe-to-say, HIGHLY unlikely) I don’t know if I’d actually do the show. Why? Well…

4. Am finally realizing my inner strength, and have discovered I really do posess the self-discipline to take care of myself. Not only physically, but spiritually and emotionally, as well as…

5. Intellectually. I am finally to the point in my life where I’m ready to go back to school. For real. I don’t care about the cost, or the final result too much right now. I’m going to go, and take it day-by-day, semester-by-semester, until God shows me what he’s had in mind for me all along. I am actively looking into ISU right now. Yup, looks like the ol girl may be making a triumphant return to the land of corn and butter cows yet.

Which brings me to my final point of…

6. This chapter of my life, that I’ve lovingly referred to as “The Chronicles of Nannia” may be soon coming to an end. As with all life’s changes, this brings with it tangled feelings of unbridled fear and giddy excitement, but I’m in the process of writing the final few pages of this chapter, and begin preparing for the next one… Which currently has no title. I’m sure something will come to mind eventually.

Until next time… Be well!

February 14, 2009

Interesting

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I have to say that it’s amazing what kind of opportunities can present themselves to you when you drop all your preconceived notions of things, and give full reign to God.  That is where this blog entry will end.  No more details to be given at the moment, as I don’t know how many more details there are to give.  But I’ve unlocked a floodgate of possibility, and I’m excited to see where God leads on this adventure. Tally-ho!

February 6, 2009

P.O. WTF?!

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I admit that I’m not the best at keeping up with extended family all the time, but this is ridiculous.  I have not seen or heard from a rather estranged aunt for almost 15 years.  Same goes for my grandfather on that side of the family.  We just all kind of fell out of touch years ago, after having rather “strained” relations all throughout my childhood.  I don’t blame anyone for this… I know how to write a letter or dial a phone just as much as they do.  Its just always been better that we don’t keep in contact.

So, today I go out to the mailbox, expecting to get a package from Amazon.com (bought Nick & Norah’s Infinite Playlist… thought I might have something cool to watch tonight), but instead find a plastic covered torn to shreds insulated yellow envelope addressed to me.  You know the kind of envelope I’m talking about, I’m sure…. it’s the one about the size of a postcard, with bubble paper glued to the inside.  I see the return address, and roll my eyes… it is my aunt’s.  

Curious as to what it contains, I take it inside and gingerly attempt to retrieve the remains.  I pull out a very torn up piece of purple notebook paper, and a photo, that at first struck me as some sort of sick joke.  Dead or napping?I’m pretty sure that’s my grandfather, but seeing as how I’ve not laid eyes on the man since I was about a sophomore in HIGH SCHOOL, I couldn’t tell you for sure.  And, could the picture have been more awkward? Seriously, is he taking a nap, or what?  

So, anyway, I piece together the purple paper, and it’s basically her calling herself a “Turtle” at how slow she is to send off Christmas greetings, and that my grandfather and the cat wanted to send them too (hence the photo…. har har har!) and she hopes that whatever it was that was originally in the yellow padded envelope is long enough to fit me.  

1. I suppose she is a little slow sending off Christmas greetings, since the last one received from her was in about 1994.

2. I’m not even assuming that there was something in the envelope, nor am I disappointed that there was nothing when it arrived…

3. If she passed me in the street, I don’t think she’d know me, nor I her… and I have absolutely no problem with this.

4. If she was so damn concerned about it being late, maybe she should mention something about the time between greetings, instead of ignoring it as if it’d never happened.

5. HOW THE HELL DID SHE GET MY ADDRESS?!?! I swear, if I get unexpected visitors looking for money, I may just flip.

I suppose I wouldn’t have such a bitter taste in my mouth about this whole thing, if I didn’t know what kind of stuff she pulls at all times.  This is a woman who has more college degrees than I’ll ever be able to even dream about pursuing, but who has spent the entirety of her life on some form of welfare or another, due to “medical problems.”  Now, correct me if I’m wrong here, but are there, or are there not, MILLIONS of diabetic Americans living normal lives, working hard, and who are reasonably happy?  I know of at least one such man who works his ass off, will never retire (not due to an unwillingness to do so), and would NEVER ask for a handout… so funny how two such different people can be raised in the same family, no?

UGH. I am probably coming off as a big bitch here, but I really don’t care.  I can forgive, and I do forgive…. but I don’t forget, and I don’t allow hurtful people into my life.  And this is one person who I refuse to let any further into my life than this blog can reach.

January 25, 2009

The feminine side

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They say that beauty isn’t easy, and all that, but I just have this to say.  All my life, I’ve been an avid nail-biter.  It’s not something I’m proud of, but whatever.  It is what it is.  I started letting my nails grow last month.  I’ve devotedly filed, strengthened, polished, moisturized… the whole nine yards.  And my one and only comment here is: I realize that clean, feminine hands are attractive to the opposite sex, and really make a woman look as if she cares for herself.  Really, I get it.  But these talons are hindering my ability to type, zip things, button things, tie things, and grab things.  Should I grab for a railing when I fall up or down the stairs (don’t laugh, it happens a LOT), I run the risk of chipping or breaking one of these things on the end of my fingers.  

Other than that one complaint, life is going relatively well.  Thanks for asking.  Until next time…. peace y’all!

January 5, 2009

Princess

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Over the past few days, I’ve begun to realize some important facts.  Well, make that a important fact.  I’m a daughter of God.  He is my heavenly Father, and King of Kings.  In Him I trust, and trust completely.  As His daughter, I am a princess.  Princesses don’t have to worry that they are not going to be taken care of.  I put my faith in my Heavenly Father that He would help me end the seemingly endless struggle of financial debt, and now, I’m thrilled to report that I’m financially debt free.  My faith in my Heavenly Father has reached a new level.  I have nothing to fear with Him.  All of my life, I’ve struggled with food.  I eat in secret… I’m afraid that there won’t be enough, so I overindulge when no one’s looking.  This has taken a physical and emotional toll on me.  I’ve come to realize, though, that as long as my faith in God is strong, that I have nothing to fear.  I know now that I cannot continue to turn to food for comfort.  God is the only One who can ever comfort me.  He will always provide for me.  Sneaking into the kitchen to eat in fear and secrecy is a way of showing a lack of faith.  I refuse to be a pawn any longer in this circle.  This year, I am learning to put my faith in Him always.  This will be a year of further healing.  Can I be healed completely? With God, I know the answer is “YES.”

December 4, 2008

One a year is just about right…

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Ok, so I’ve decided I’m only going to do these little questionnaires once a year now… I mean, really, how much can one be expected to change or even have anything interesting to contribute to one of these on a more frequent basis than that?  So, without fail, I bring to you, my still loyal (tho I’m not sure why) readers, my “About Me, 2008 Edition”.  Enjoy.

1. WHAT TIME DID YOU GET UP THIS MORNING? 6:20am

2. DIAMONDS OR PEARLS? Honestly, I like pearls better.  Not much for diamonds. They’re a little over-hyped.

3. WHAT IS THE LAST FILM THAT YOU SAW AT THE CINEMA? Some friends and I went to see Twilight a couple weeks ago.  It was good…. the book was better.

4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW? Lost has me hooked, but I also dig anything on the Food Network

5. WHAT DO YOU USUALLY HAVE FOR BREAKFAST? a poached egg over toast and a slice of grilled ham

6. WHAT IS YOUR MIDDLE NAME? Leanne

7. WHAT FOOD DO YOU DISLIKE? Vegemite… tried it for the first time this last weekend.  It must be an acquired taste or something.

8. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CD? People still have CD’s? Huh.

9. WHAT KIND OF CAR DO YOU DRIVE? My boss’s Ford Excursion.  I call him “Goliath”

10. FAVORITE SANDWICH? Turkey club, or rueben…. depending on where I am.

11. WHAT CHARACTERISTIC DO YOU DESPISE? People who are rude or dishonest

12. FAVORITE ITEM OF CLOTHING? anything that’s comfy enough to sleep in

13. IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD ON VACATION, WHERE WOULD YOU GO? I’d love to just get one of those silver-tubey campers and road-trip all over north america for a year or so…

14. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR BATHROOM? white. boring, I know, but I don’t own it. I live with my employer

15. FAVORITE HOLIDAY? Christmas is pretty high up there

16. WHERE WOULD YOU RETIRE TO? I retire to my bed every night

17. WHAT WAS YOUR MOST MEMORABLE BIRTHDAY? My last birthday was pretty good. Party in the penthouse!

18. FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH? College football or hockey

19. FURTHEST PLACE YOU ARE SENDING THIS? my blog…. whoa

20. FAVORITE SAYING? Just breathe

21 ARE YOU A MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON? depends on who I’m with

22. WHAT IS YOUR SHOE SIZE? 10

23. PETS? not anymore

24. WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU WERE LITTLE? a teacher or journalist

25. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CANDY? Jelly Belly jelly beans, good n’ plenty, skittles

26. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE FLOWER? Those big, colorful daisy things that come in really bright colors. I dunno what their real name is.

27. WHAT IS A DAY ON THE CALENDER YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO? Right now? Dec 23… first day of roadtrip to Texas!

28. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE? Pastrami sandwich

29. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE? Burnt sienna?

30. FAVORITE SOFT DRINK? seltzer with lime

31. FAVORITE RESTAURANT? Teak on the Hudson 

32. SIBLINGS? Maria and Nathan

33. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD? my blue bike with a white banana seat and red/white streamers… that thing rocked!

34. SUMMER OR WINTER? Autumn

35. HUGS OR KISSES? Hugs rock

36. COFFEE OR TEA? both are great

37. CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? vanilla

38. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? a couple nights ago… dumb girl emotions!

39. WHAT IS UNDER YOUR BED? a couple of boxes, and maybe a sock or two

40. WHO IS THE FRIEND THAT YOU HAVE HAD THE LONGEST? Christi

41. WHAT DID YOU DO LAST NIGHT? Worked, chatted with a new friend for a while…

42. FAVORITE SMELL? fresh cut grass

43. WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF? not much that I can think of…. maybe being alone the rest of my life?
44. SALTY OR SWEET? both
45. HOW MANY KEYS ON YOUR RING? no keys

46. HOW MANY YEARS AT YOUR CURRENT JOB? about 9 months

47. FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK? Sunday

48. HOW MANY TOWNS HAVE YOU LIVED IN? 8

49. DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS EASILY? I think so…

November 10, 2008

Soles4Souls

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Nashville, TN — November 7, 2008 — Soles4Souls, the international charity dedicated to providing free footwear to those in desperate need, has announced plans to launch a new fundraising website, www.50000shoes.com. The charity is challenging bloggers and social media users to raise funds for 50,000 pairs of new shoes in 50 days.

Through the new world of blogging, emailing, twittering, and through many other forms of online media, the non-profit hopes to achieve not only the fundraising goal, but also to spread their mission far and wide. The Soles4Souls www.50000shoes.com charity challenge will be live on Monday, November 10, 2008 and end on Wednesday, December 31, 2008.

“We have been utilizing the basic Web-based marketing tools such as e-mail blasts, social networking and YouTube videos. However, this website, www.50000shoes.com, is the natural evolution of our viral marketing plan,” said Soles4Souls Founder and CEO, Wayne Elsey.

“A strong grass-roots effort, combined with an effective web-based social marketing platform, will allow Soles4Souls to form online community in a creative manner while being effective with raising funds and helping those in need,” he said.

Both the tech savvy and the computer challenged can visit www.50000shoes.com to download their choice of four (4) Soles4Souls banners ad and blog widgets. Using the tools provided, users will be able to easily email, blog, or twitter the challenge to friends, family and co-workers as well as ask everyone to continue spreading the message.

“This is a huge challenge to meet a huge need. We want to virally attack the issues of poverty and make it simple for the end user to play a role in it,” Elsey stated.

Donating is easy and takes just a click and a couple of minutes. It requires no shipping, no wrapping and no trips to the post office. The monetary donation is small with $5.00 buying two pairs of new shoes. Anyone can click and give, and all donations are tax-deductible.

After 50,000 pairs have been donated, one person (with a guest of their choosing) will be selected at random to deliver the shoes they purchased to someone in need on one of Soles4Souls’ trips to Mexico!

“Can you imagine what it would be like to personally give someone their very first pair of shoes?! We look forward to connecting the tangibility of handing someone a pair of shoes with the virtual world of the Internet,” Elsey said.

Social networking has become a very powerful communications tool; however, no one knows when life will hit hard or where a disaster will strike. One day you have everything you need; the next you may only have your life. A pair of shoes can help people begin the rebuilding process. Shoes not only bring hope, but in millions of cases they can save lives. It is estimated that Americans have 1.5 billion pairs of unworn shoes lying in their closets while over 300 million children around the world have never owned a pair of shoes. This is an opportunity to “Step Up” and to help Soles4Souls with their mission of “Changing the World, One Pair at a Time” with “One Click at A Time.”

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